Do you know what type of person you are?
If you don’t it is okay. Not everyone does. Some people might not be there yet. Some people might not want to know. some people are just too darn busy. And that’s okay.
Me? I’m a fixer.
I attract broken people, and people who need helping. And they are attracted to me.
There are lots of different brokens. They can be massive, or they can be small.
But generally, something that needs helping.
I’m okay with this, although it can be draining.
I tend to put others before myself. Before my family sometimes even.
I invest emotionally in a situation that once they are “fixed” they can move on.
They take a part of me with them
I am an empath.
I will feel the pain and cry the tears.
I may not let them see it, because I don’t want that person to feel they are burdening me with their broken.
They’re not, they’re sharing and I’m honoured.But crying for them means I celebrate for them also.
Their achievements are my achievements.
Their goals are my goals to help them reach.
And at the end of the day, the part they take?
I hope it is a little bit of the fixer part, so maybe, they can help fix someone else and the whole world might be a little nicer to each other.